Monthly Archives: September 2023

business, life

Ending the Week on a High Note

Cheers!

I need to take a minute to share the magic of wrapping up what feels like a “permanent Monday morning” kind of week with the pure joy that is a Friday after-work get-together. You know the kind of week I’m talking about—meetings, deadlines, mind-boggling problems, and an endless list of to-dos. Well, just when you think you’ve hit your limit, the universe comes through with the gift of Friday night! And it’s always just in time…

The Power of a Couple of Beers

Imagine the scene: We clock off work, leave our desks behind, and head over to the nearby pub. No agenda. No serious business talk. Just a couple of beers, some well-earned laughter, and the collective exhale we’ve all been holding in since Monday. It is wonderful and I love it.

Connection Over Competition


What I like most about these Friday get-togethers is the camaraderie. It’s the little things—sharing a joke, discussing weekend plans, or even admitting how that one project nearly had us considering a “Peter Pan” moment (a collective leap from the nearest tall building)—that engenders a sense of community. In these moments, we’re not just colleagues; we’re comrades in the battlefield of the work week.

Why It’s More Than Just Beers


You might be wondering, what’s the big deal? It’s just a casual meet-up after all. But here’s the thing: It’s in these informal settings that we break down barriers and build relationships that make us better at what we do. Research has shown that team members who engage in social activities are more collaborative and perform amazingly in problem-solving tasks. (I just made that up – but I’m sure that it’s true).

The Unspoken Benefits


From a psychological perspective, these casual gatherings act as a ‘reset button,’ allowing us to disengage from work-mode and recharge our emotional batteries. This feeds back into our productivity and creativity the following week. It’s the virtuous circle of work-life balance. And it works.

So, here’s a shoutout to our amazing team for being part of this ritual that I look forward to every week. You folks are the real MVPs who make even the toughest weeks manageable.

@abhi, @ken, @ty, @sam, @matt, @darren, @arnaud

Also – a special mention to @fabrice , @maricris , and @nina  – your herculean efforts are much appreciated!

Happy weekend, everyone! Follow your bliss.

Photo: Courtesy of Google Images

#Cheers

business

Continuing the Battle Against Invitation “Carpet Bombing”

A Continuing Conversation

In a previous discussion, “Stop the Madness!”, we explored the growing problem of generic and cold connection requests on LinkedIn, likening them to a “time-wasting turnoff” that fails to encourage meaningful relationships. From the cold selling conundrum to the importance of authentic connections, we dissected why this approach doesn’t work. Now, as the issue continues to persist, it’s time to delve deeper into the ongoing struggle against “carpet bombing” on LinkedIn and explore solutions for a more respectful and connected professional community.

The Ongoing Struggle

Despite growing awareness of the disingenuous practice of invitation “carpet bombing” on LinkedIn — where connection requests are sent en masse without proper personalization or context — the trend continues unabated. Far from being a strategy for success, this approach leaves many professionals feeling bombarded, frustrated, and disconnected.

The Frustration of Unsolicited Requests

The scenario is all too familiar: an influx of connection requests from people you’ve never heard of, each accompanied by a generic message. These messages lack sincerity and insight, betraying the fact that no real effort has been made to understand who you are or what you do. This isn’t networking; it’s noise. And it’s a problem that’s getting worse.

Why This Approach Is Self-Defeating

There are several reasons why this carpet-bombing approach is ultimately self-defeating:

  1. Dilutes Trust: By sending generic messages without research, the sender shows a lack of genuine interest in the recipient’s work or expertise. This dilutes the trust required for a fruitful professional relationship.
  2. Harms Professional Reputation: The practice paints a picture of desperation rather than professionalism. It signals that the sender values quantity over quality, potentially harming their professional reputation.
  3. Misses Opportunities for Authentic Connection: True connections are made through genuine interaction and understanding. The carpet-bombing approach forgoes these essential elements, neglecting opportunities for real engagement and collaboration.

A Perspective from Recipients

From the recipient’s viewpoint, receiving these unsolicited and insincere connection requests feels intrusive. It’s like receiving spam in your email inbox. The annoyance can lead to a complete dismissal of the request, closing the door on any chance of forming a potentially valuable connection.

A Perspective from Senders

While some may argue that this method is a numbers game and bound to yield some success, the costs often outweigh the benefits. The small percentage of connections that might respond positively is likely overshadowed by the damage done to the sender’s professional image and the opportunities lost with those who are put off by the approach.

What We Can Do: A Collective Effort

Let’s recognize that this is a collective issue that requires a shared effort to combat. We must all commit to being more mindful in how we connect with others on LinkedIn. Here’s how:

  1. Emphasize Authentic Engagement: Let’s return to the principles of authentic networking by taking the time to research and understand those we’re reaching out to.
  2. Report Misuse: LinkedIn has mechanisms for reporting connection requests that appear spammy or irrelevant. Utilizing these tools can help the platform identify and manage inappropriate behaviors.
  3. Educate and Share Best Practices: Let’s continue to promote discussions about the right way to connect on LinkedIn. By sharing insights and educating one another, we can create a more meaningful and productive environment.

Conclusion: Let’s Reclaim LinkedIn

LinkedIn’s power as a platform for professional growth is undeniable. But to unlock its true potential, we must shift away from carpet bombing and toward genuine, thoughtful connections. Let’s not allow the actions of a few to taint the possibilities of many. The onus is on all of us to create the LinkedIn experience we desire.

I invite you to join this conversation by sharing your thoughts and experiences below. Together, we can lead the way in fostering a more respectful and connected professional community.

Photo: Courtesy of Google Images